Blog Posts

Yay I am a Florida therapist

Navigating the LMFT licensure process across multiple states can be confusing, overwhelming, and surprisingly inconsistent. In this post, I share my real experience getting licensed in Florida for teletherapy, why it was the easiest state for a subsequent LMFT license, and what I’ve learned while applying for licensure in Virginia, Washington, New York, Texas, and Connecticut. I break down the differences between licensure by endorsement, temporary licenses, and states that require starting over, as well as what it’s like to face the LMFT National Exam years after graduating. If you’re a therapist considering multi-state licensure, telehealth across state lines, or feeling buried by paperwork, applications, and fingerprinting chaos, this post offers an honest, relatable look at what the process is actually like.

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I Word Vomited and It Showed Up in My Dreams

This blog post explores growing up with a parent with an intellectual disability and the emotional impact of speaking publicly about that experience. After sharing a viral video, I reflect on how trauma, long-held shame, and emotional suppression began surfacing through intense and symbolic dreams. The post examines dream interpretation, emetophobia, emotional release, and trauma processing, and how sharing personal experiences online can affect mental health and the subconscious. Through personal reflection, this piece connects childhood experiences, healing, and the role dreams play in processing trauma and identity.

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Growing Up With a Parent With an Intellectual Developmental Disability

A personal reflection on growing up with a parent with an intellectual developmental disability (IDD), exploring the often unspoken experiences of shame, silence, and resilience, and why sharing this story openly can help others feel seen, understood, and less alone.

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Photograph of Motherhood: Facing and Finding Yourself by Lisa Marchiano, used to reflect themes of motherhood, identity, and lived experience.

Rediscovering a Painting From My Teenage Years

While clearing out my mom’s place, I rediscovered artwork I made as a teenager, including a mixed-media painting created during a time of intense emotion. This reflective blog post explores memory, grief, creativity, and how art can preserve emotional experiences from adolescence into adulthood.

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Mixed-media painting made at age seventeen featuring a flower form created with wires, paint, wax, and found objects on a dark background.

The hardest thing about change

A reflection on why consistency is so hard, why intentional consistency matters, and how learning to tolerate discomfort has changed the way I show up--even when I don’t want to.

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Creating a journal to bring to therapy

Why I made a very simple journal for people who feel overwhelmed, forget what they want to talk about in therapy, or just need a place to put their thoughts.

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Ins and Outs for 2026

A personal reflection on what I want to invite in and let go of in 2026, rooted in intention, choice, and moving out of ambivalence.

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